In the Saddle

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July 2011

Jeez, okay.

Jonny’s yelling at me to post something so he doesn’t have to see Michael C. Hall’s old David face.

So…

Okay…here’s a story. This one time, I caught on fire while cooking pasta. I was wearing my robe, which has big terry cloth sleeves, as robes are sometimes wont to have, and as I was cooking tomatoes for sauce, my right sleeve caught some of the flame from the burner. I only vaguely remember what happened after that, just that my sleeve went up and somehow the flames went up to the back of the neck of the robe. I was screaming and shucked the thing off me, stomping on it. Jonny, hearing the commotion, came out and helped me stomp out the flames.

Miraculously, I was totally fine, other than some singed hair along my neckline, and my shaken confidence. I handled it with my standard use of complete self-deprecation. Still do…often I’ll look at Jonny and say, hey, remember that time I caught on fire? That was funny. [except not.]

I learned a valuable lesson though: put on real clothes when cooking. Cuz I mean, it’s not obvious or anything.

Jul 31, 2011-1 notes
#stories. #Silly Saddle.
Play
Jul 28, 2011-1 notes
#the best ever. #miss u 6 feet under.
That was the most uneloquent response I could have written.

It’s definitely 4:39 on a Wednesday.

Jul 27, 2011-1 notes
#Oy. #brain=fried.
See, we're coming from completely different places, because I didn't mean a big send off like a hit song. If I go see Phish, a big send off doesn't mean a "hit song." If anything, their most well known song as an encore (YEM) is a magical treat that is a HUGE send off on an amazing show. They don't do that often and they don't have hit songs hahaha. A huge send off may be a song a band hasn't played in years, or it may be a song that's meant to be the last opportunity for the crowd to get down and dance. With a band that plays a lot of live shows, an encore may be to make up for a sloppy performance, it may be to celebrate what a wonderful show they just played, or it may be sending a message (i.e. fuck you) to a lame crowd. A big send off to a knowledgable crowd may be a cover never before performed, a rare song from the band's catalog, a 3 song encore when there's usually only one. I think you missed what I meant by "big send off." Like you I don't see Bon Jovi or bands that give you a predictable setlist that you could find was played every other night on a national tour, with the same predictable encores. Not because of the encore itself, but because if I want to listen to greatest hits, I'll put on the greatest hits CD and have a beer on the back porch rather than spending $100.

Oh…see I like what you’re saying…and I get that with different shows (i.e. a Bon Jovi vs a Phish), an encore means something else.

If there is some element of surprise in the encore, like a song they haven’t played in years, then I’m totally more appreciative. That’s kinda what I was saying. I just don’t necessarily like the whole act of leaving the stage waiting for the audience to scream, coming back on as if they never intended to do that anyway thing. But if they play something interesting and unexpected (or if it’s like a thing that they always close with one song…) then it makes it much better.

I don’t know, I mean concerts are really funny things if you think about it. It’s a band or an artist, catering to hundreds to thousands of people, who all have their own idea of what constitutes a great show. I mean…concerts are really actually quite personal things, wrapped in the most impersonal setting possible. You know?

Jul 27, 20111 note
I kind of disagree about the encore thing depending on who you're seeing. There are bands I see that have staple encore songs or obscure encore songs. The bottom line is that their crowds love them and they're going to get a huge send off at the end of the show. So they return the favor with an encore that fits the show and sends the crowd off. I agree the encore is bonus, but it's that icing on the cake that really tops off a great show.

See but then it’s not an encore. It’s just part of their show. The whole basis of an encore is spontaneity. The crowd wanting more and vocalizing it. If it’s an expected thing, then it ruins the interesting nature of it…especially if it’s the only big hit in the set that they didn’t play. Which is why I’d appreciate it more if it were something totally unexpected. Leaving the stage is just totally annoying and expected at this point, so until it’s not, I’d appreciate the artist to just stay on, enjoy the adulation and then say…okay…one more.

So let’s say you’re seeing Bon Jovi. It’s so false and annoying to me for them to not play Living on a Prayer throughout the whole set. That makes everything totally obvious. And then it’s just not an encore in the true sense of the word. I would rather they END the set on Living on a Prayer, and then, if they must do an encore, come back and play something really interesting…a different version of one of their songs, a cover song, something like that.

But that’s just me. I, admittedly, like a different kind of concert than other people do and I get that most people going to see Bon Jovi would totally love a big send off like Living on a Prayer as their encore. I like the big send off (or not necessarily big, but really really good) too, but I don’t like the fakeness of it.

So…yeah.

Jul 27, 20110 notes
Are Encores Necessary? → blogs.villagevoice.com

jaimeleigh:

maura:

three of the four Big Shows i’ve been to in the past few weeks have skipped encores. are they becoming passé?

Encores intrigue me! Like, we all know it is going to happen? So it is this really contrived thing, always. Band plays “last” song. Band didn’t play a) biggest hit, or b) biggest true fan hit. Band walks off. Everybody knows they are coming back! WE ALL KNOW YOU ARE COMING BACK. Crowd waits. Crowd chants “one more song.” Band re-appears! Plays their biggest hit or biggest true fan hit. Everybody leaves! I’ve always thought it was a silly little dance. Now I know for sure. Down with encores.

I wholeheartedly agree. I think encores are just plain dumb. The only way it should happen, in my opinion, is if, while the artists are on stage, after having finished their last song, the crowd is going wild WHILE they’re saying goodnight and taking their bows or whatever they do. And it shouldn’t be their biggest hit. It should be something obscure and organic. Play your hits in your show! That’s what people are there for. The encore is something extra, not a fake part of the show. It should be thought of by the artist, but not necessarily planned.

Or, at least, make it seem like it’s somewhat organic. I mean. It really is a silly game.

Jul 27, 2011130 notes
#encores are stupid. #Music.
Jul 27, 20117 notes
#gpoyw #good mood. #Who Knew?
OMG, I'm such a Twitter whore...

I don’t usually use my Twitter (I kind of don’t get it? I don’t know, whatever.), but at Sasstacular’s smart suggestion to my earlier query about ReHoz, I utilized the tagging feature and wrote:

image

Let’s watch what happens! (har. har. har.)

Jul 27, 20115 notes
#ReHoz! #ReHo madness! #Twitter.
A Case of You, Joni Mitchell

I mean, a perfect song.

Jul 27, 20114 notes
#Forreals #love.
Jul 27, 20112 notes
#but I wanna listen to MY music! #fucking hate Dora and all that... #dad knew how to shut it down.
Favorite Albums

I have a gauge of judging the albums I listen to/love; I base it on how many songs on the record that I skip over. See most albums have at least one song that is kind of a loser, or just not as good as the others, and the number of those skip-worthy songs kind of tells you how good the album is as a whole.

5+ songs skipped = I want my money back

4 songs skipped = not great, probably won’t listen again

3 songs skipped = mediocre, might grow on me

2 songs skipped = pretty good

1 song skipped = excellent

0 songs skipped = rare and perfect

Currently I’m listening to Joni Mitchell’s Blue. One of my favorites of all time. It’s kind of a half song skippable to me, as I don’t love the closer of the album, “The Last Time I Saw Richard”, but I do listen to it on occasion. So it’s a pretty near-perfect album. I haven’t listened to it in a while (Spotify, you’re growing on me), so I’m particularly enjoying it this gray and stormy morning.

Ah, music.

Jul 27, 2011-1 notes
#Music. #Joni 4 eva.
Non-ReHo-fans need not read.

You guys…wouldn’t you love to hear Bethenny’s take on this past ReHoNY season?

How do we make this happen?

Jul 27, 20117 notes
#ReHoz! #ReHo madness!
21, 10, 28, 26

21. control-v and post (uh oh)

[redacted]@sbcglobal.net
huh. Not as bad as I was thinking it could be. This is the email of the roofer we used last year to fix our building’s leaks. My old neighbor needed it. Actually, kinda boring…sorry.

10. something I’ve lied about.

Why I was/am running late. Since this was a constant theme in my life in my 20s, I was always coming up with excuses…why I was late for work, why I didn’t turn that paper in on time, why I forgot to call/email/whatever a person back…and they weren’t always entirely (or at all) truthful. I’ve toned it down quite a bit, and actually employ honesty nowadays when I’m late for something. OMG, I’m so mature.

28. an embarrassing/socially awkward situation i’ve found myself in.

Oh wow…so many. Most recently? A party at which a divorced man’s child first met the woman he’s been dating for three years. Three years. Meeting. First time. At a party. With lots of people. Yup. Awks. (She handled it like a fucking champ, though.)

26. 5 things within touching distance

- granola bar
- pen
- sunglasses
- 3 hole punch
- planner

Jul 26, 20110 notes
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Jul 26, 20115 notes
#adorbs. #family #love.
p.s.

The cliched answer to 25 is like, Madonna or something, for obvious reasons…

As well…a dood…because…well, I’d like to know what it’s like to have a peen. Seriously!

MORE MORE!

Jul 26, 20111 note
#the truth can sometimes be lame. #oh well
12, 17, 25

12. Something I’m currently worrying about.

Hummmm…I’d say getting everything I want to do done before I leave for vacation next Monday. And then of course, traveling and dealing with all of that…Just hoping all goes well and as planned.

17. Something I regret.

I’ve talked about this before on this blog…but music stuff. Not pushing harder. Going all the way back to college and dropping out of music school. Not disciplining myself to work harder. Realizing what needed to be done far too late. Not understanding that I was the only one who was really going to make stuff happen. So…yeah.

25. Someone I’d like to be for a day and why.

This is gonna sound so lame, but this one girl I’ve known since I was a teenager…not well…just acquaintances…who always seemed to have a charmed life. Gorgeous, interesting, talented, effortlessly cool. I’d like to live inside her brain for a day and see what goes on. Is it as effortless as I think? Is her life as perfect as her FB pictures portray it to be? I know, I know…totally lame. But it’s true. I’d love to embody a person who has utter and total confidence, as it seems she does. Because I…….do not.

Jul 26, 20110 notes
Bar

Jonny’s taking the bar exam at this very moment.

I can’t believe this thing that has consumed our existence, both in thought and practice, is ending in less than 36 hours. It’s pretty amazing.

It is the end of an era, really. For the duration of our marriage, he has been involved in some aspect of law study and the bar exam; first preparing to go to law school, then dealing with the hellish first semester, then getting the hang of everything…cut to 2.5 years later and spending the majority of his days taking practice exams, reading outlines, and writing essays. This is a lot of time and a lot of work, people.

Let’s give the little fella a round of applause.

Let’s also get excited about the future…the lovely, law school/bar exam-less future that will be ours to enjoy.

OMGYAY.

Jul 26, 201110 notes
#jonny! #so proud. #Life.
Because I haz a bored and people never use my ask box:
  1. the person i like and why i like them.
  2. a famous person i’ve been compared to.
  3. 5 things that irritate me about the same sex/opposite sex.
  4. the best thing that has happened to me this week.
  5. weird things i do when i’m alone.
  6. how i’d spend ten thousand bucks.
  7. things i like and things i don’t like about the way i look.
  8. my last night out in detail.
  9. something that makes me sad when i think about it.
  10. something i’ve lied about.
  11. would i rather be stranded on a desert island with someone i love for ten years or someone i hate for a month? explain why.
  12. something i’m currently worrying about.
  13. one person from tumblr i’d throw off a cliff, one i’d marry and one i’d fuck.
  14. something i do without realising.
  15. lyrics that apply to my current situation/mood.
  16. a drunken story.
  17. something i regret.
  18. to do list.
  19. post a picture of myself.
  20. my longest relationship and who it was with.
  21. press ctrl v and post.
  22. post a bit of my last IM convo.
  23. 5 things i want to change.
  24. my view on being tumblr famous.
  25. someone i’d like to be for a day and why.
  26. 5 things within touching distance.
  27. story of my first kiss.
  28. an embarrassing/socially awkward situation i’ve found myself in.
  29. something i’m not proud of.
  30. the last argument i had.

Me too! Me too!

Jul 26, 201123 notes
#ASK ME SHIT!
What's going on.

A few things:

  • I don’t know where July has gone.
  • Jonny will take the bar tomorrow and Wednesday.
  • I’m glad for both of us that life will return to normal (whatever that is).
  • My nails are longer than they’ve ever been in my life and I feel them against the keys on my keyboard and that’s weird. I don’t think I’m meant for long nails.
  • That was a stupid bullet.
  • I made schnitzel for dinner last night.
  • I don’t know how to keep the breading from coming off….any tips?
  • I am sad that Jessa will soon lose her apartment buddy in Jonny once we return from our vacation and he starts working full time. She really got attached to him while he was home studying.
  • Oh, right! Vacation! We’re leaving next Monday for Ogunquit, Maine…we cannot wait. I need some cute beaches and relaxation. Then off to Salem, Mass. for our friends’ wedding. Then off to the Berkshires to spend some time with my parents up in the quiet of the mountains and trees. This all is so needed.
  • I’m incredibly proud of Jonny for his months of dedication studying and working hard. It’s been so hard on him and he’s done a great job of keeping it together. Everyone, please think good thoughts for my darling. Pass! Pass! Pass!!
Jul 25, 2011-1 notes
#things.
I'm oddly sad...

With all the stupid “stars” around who “fall apart” and expect the world to pick up after them, Amy Winehouse really did seem like a truly troubled soul.

I hope she’s at peace now.

Jul 23, 2011-1 notes
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